Why does my life suck?

Life is a series of never-ending lessons. If you think that because you’re over 21, you have no more lessons; you’re in for a lot of frustrations. Finding a spiritual pathway that aids you in learning those lessons makes life a great deal happier, if not easier. Take my life. Every time I start a business, something gets in the way and I have to put it on hold. It’s been children, husband, the dog, my health, the health of my children, husband, the dog. Do you see where I’m going with this? It can seem like the universe doesn’t want me to do this. Why did I have this dream if the universe doesn’t want me to do it? What if I am supposed to do it but I have to let go of some preconceived notions before I can get it? This puts a whole new light on the problem. You mean I can change my circumstance? Well this opens up a whole new can of worms. Now I have to look at what my blocks are and see them as “me” centered rather than “them” centered. Let the grumbling commence. I’ll wait.

Done? Well at least for now? Okay, now we can get some work done. First, let’s look at first cause. You know, God; or Fred. I don’t care what you call him/her/it/them. This is important so you can identify your relationship to it. The Divine is probably bigger than you or I can put a box around, but you can, at least, define it so you’ll know it when you see and experience it. Now, does this greatness want you to succeed? If not, then this discussion is moot; so, let’s assume that yes, it wants you to achieve your dreams. Congratulations. You’ve made your first and second leaps of faith. There is a something greater than you and it’s in your corner rooting for you. Spirituality and religion, for that matter, requires a leap of faith, several actually.

Whew! How’s that feel? My bet is, if you’re coming from that old-time religion, you’re feeling ok but hesitant. If you’re coming from an atheist or agnostic background, you need a bit more. That’s ok. Just hang with these first two concepts for a bit. Journal. Draw. Meditate. Think and feel these concepts through. Your thoughts and feelings are valid and important. From these musing will come insights and questions which will propel you forward on this magnificent journey. I invite you to post any questions or positive comments in the comments below.